Systems Instead of Memory: How I Actually Run a Business with a Busy Brain
If you read the last post about running a business with a busy brain and recognised yourself in there, understand this: the problem was never you. It’s the missing structure that’s holding you back!
But then come the difficult questions. What does building structure actually look like on a normal day? And how do you stop structure from becoming so heavy that it outweighs the client work you love?
So, I’m sharing the bones of my set-up to help you kickstart that structure building you so desperately need. This is not a shiny shopping list of apps - it’s the thinking underneath them that matters most!
The juggle of business and life
The thinking: my brain just isn’t a reliable tool for remembering everything! I’m in business solo, so, business is life and life is business!
The lines definitely get blurred and I embrace that. My busy brain does not need more places to check, so instead of segregating, I consolidated.
One shared calendar for work and personal appointments. Everything goes in, and it gets announced to me (thanks, Alexa!) so I am never caught out by what’s next.
One task list that covers client work, business running, and my home admin. Not two competing lists fighting for my attention or getting forgotten.
All my business ideas recorded in my task list, the second they pop into my head, wherever I am, on my phone, my tablet or my computer. My busy brain throws up 500 ideas and loses 499 of them almost instantly, so it’s key to get them all down; I can always delete the shit ones later! 😂
Warning label: This takes a few hours to set up and needs review time allocated weekly / daily. If you are not prepared to maintain it, you may as well continue muddling through!
I let the systems do the remembering, not me
This is where my automation earns its keep. Tasks I used to do by hand, and often forgot, now happen on their own. You build capacity into the system, so it doesn’t all rest on you remembering.
Clients, leads and networking contacts book their own appointments through my CRM. No more email tennis to find a slot that suits us both.
The booking platform sends its own reminders, creates and shares the meeting link, and takes the card payment up front.
My task list automatically reminds me of deadlines and regular tasks that need taking care of, so I can stay ahead.
Warning label: Using automation requires good tech, and good tech costs money, not a lot, but there is a cost. Weigh up the time the manual grind costs you, and it’s a no brainer. You can also set up manual systems that will help (I have some tips for those coming soon).
I do money and filing like a corporate
The admin most of us dread is exactly the admin worth automating first, because it’s the bit that goes wrong when life gets busy.
A business bank account linked to simple accounting software keeps the day-to-day numbers in order, so I always know where I stand.
An Accountant makes sure my tax return is done on time, every time. No January panic for me!
A professional electronic filing system with a set structure and templates, so I am never hunting for the version of a document I know exists somewhere.
Warning label: This time the warning label isn’t about taking the action, it’s about the consequences of not taking it! If you don’t have a dedicated bank account for your business, you are just creating a mess for future you to sort out. This is a business fundamental.
Met once, never forgotten!
The follow-up you never send is the client you never book. Losing a contact or lead after promising to meet for a 1:1 or forgetting some of the details of your networking conversations isn’t a character flaw. It’s just a missing system!
Every contact, plus brief outlines of our conversations, sit in one place I can trust.
Template emails I (or my VA) can send in seconds, so the follow-up actually happens.
Emails automatically collated by contact name and business, so I always have easy access to the latest information.
Warning label: This requires some upfront set up, discipline and occasional manual process, so if you can’t commit to updating the notes after each call, it’s a pointless exercise.
I hand off what is not mine to do, and speed up the rest
I cannot do everything, and I stopped pretending I could. Some of it goes to other people. Some of it goes to tools that give me a head start. Shedding the tasks that sit outside my circle of genius, also allows me to be more creative, and do more of the work I love!
My VA helps me with social media posting and admin tasks that suck up time I could spend doing something more fun, that makes money.
Landing pages and an email marketing system mean staying in touch is built in, not a manual chore I keep putting off.
AI assistants turn my rough ramblings (voice-noted) into a first draft – no online research allowed. They draft, I edit, to create the finished article, and soon I’ll have a human proofreader to check it.
Warning label: Process before software applies. AI blogs can be dry, repeat what others are saying, or completely misunderstand your intention. If you are using outside help, AI or human, know what outcome you want so you can monitor how well it’s actually working.
I built the environment first, then I protect it
The set-up is not only software. It is the physical space and the boundaries around it, and both cut down the friction that trips a distractible brain.
An ultrawide screen with set working zones, so switching tasks does not mean digging through a pile of windows.
Separate Chrome profiles to keep the different areas of my work sectioned and reduce distractions.
Alexa handles a few household bits, which takes the load off the executive function that is already working overtime.
Designated no-appointment days and weeks, so there is purposeful room to think and create.
Warning label: Overcomplicating your set-up can do more harm than good, so make sure what you’re setting up works for you and saves you time, stress, money… preferably all three!
It does not make me perfect – it gives me a way back
Here is the part I want to be straight about. None of this makes me perfect. I still get it wrong, regularly. I miss things, I run late, I hyperfocus straight past lunch. The structure does not cure any of that, and I have stopped expecting it to!
What has changed is the recovery. There was a time when one dropped ball meant a full spiral, and a spiral would cost me days. Now I have a way to catch it early and get myself back on track, and that is what makes the most difference!
When I drift, these are the things that pull me back:
Manual timers and the Pomodoro method, to start the task I am avoiding and to stop the one I have got lost in.
The reverse Pomodoro, to get me started when I really don’t want to.
External accountability, my rebuilt version of the extreme body-doubling I lost the day I went solo. Sometimes willpower is not the tool. Another person is.
The goal was never to create a perfect version of me. It was to build a business that holds together and supports me on the days I can’t do it all by myself.
Start with your friction, not my stack
If that list looks like a lot, that’s because it is, and it didn’t just appear, fully formed! I cleared one friction point at a time, over years, usually because something broke, or I was fed up with the feeling I was failing.
You do not need my exact set-up. You need to know where your own friction points are and build one bit of structure at a time. Fix the thing that trips you up most, give it a system, then do the next. That is how a practice stops running on adrenaline and starts flowing on rhythm.
If you would like some company while you build, the Self-Employed Staff Room is a free space where practitioners are putting the same scaffolding in place. Come and swap notes.
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Frequently asked questions
Do I need all of this to run my practice? No. Start with one thing, like the calendar, or the task list. One system you actually use beats 10 apps you half set up and abandoned.
Should I put my task list items in my calendar? It depends. If it truly works for you, great! Personally, I don’t like it. My calendar holds things that happen at a set time. My task list holds things that need doing but are not tied to a slot. Keeping them apart stops my whole day turning into one long, anxious blur.
Is a CRM overkill for a solo practice? A CRM is a memory for your practice. If you have ever lost a client because a follow-up slipped, that is the exact gap it fills. Some even have a free tier you can use, but you must check that data is secure, especially if you work in health and wellbeing.
How do I know which tool to pick? Map the process first. Work out what you are actually trying to do, then find the tool that fits it. A tool is only ever as good as the process underneath it.
Where should I start? With the friction. The thing you dread, redo, or drop most often. Give that one thing a system, then move on to the next.
